Thursday, October 05, 2006

did i just completely miss september???

seems like a blur. it IS a blur.

i spent three weeks on the road traveling for work.
three delicious weeks of room service, valet parking, having the remote all to myself, dinners out, dressing up, talking to adults all day, happy hour at the hotel bar...

tell me again why i came home?
ah yes, the three little rugrats i call mine.

(they're fine by the way)

what a mess they are. and what a rude awakening it was for me when i finished my trips and had to start staying home again. how did i do this? apparently i did. as i am doing it now.

yes, hubby, mother in law and baby sitter are all saints. They pulled the long shifts with the kids so i could get some work done away from home.

here's the funny thing - after the first few days gone, my mother in law (MIL) tells me how hubby is going to have to do this, that and the other different b/c he allows the kids to really get to him. "Yes 'Mam" i say.

After three weeks gone, MIL calls me to tell me that the in-laws (three different families) have agreed to take our kids - one per family - one weekend a month so hubby and I can catch a break. Yep, three weeks with my kids and she understands why the kids get to him.

I wanted to cry - almost did. Told her i felt like i had won the lottery.

This weekend is our first weekend. perhaps the last. but i am going to sleep late on Saturday. God help the person that calls and wakes me up Saturday morning. somebody better be dead or my house had better be burning down around me.


I have a picture for you. This is a Katrina Cross. Yes, as in Hurricane Katrina. Made by Sherri Anderson from china, glass and other debris from a Long Beach, MS neighborhood. My mom bought it for me. Part of the proceeds from the sale of these crosses is given to a mission in South Mississippi.

Please know - the rebuilding has barely begun in most coastal areas. The suffering and loss are still very raw.
and these are my people.


5 comments:

Anonymous said...

t_cole,
Sounds like September had it's rewards for you! Congrats on the in-laws stepping up to the plate for you and hubby. Use the time well...if you know what I mean *wink wink*

B

KC said...

Glad to "see" you back, t_cole! I thought you had stopped blogging altogether.

I'm so happy to read that your family is stepping up to the plate to help out. Did they just now start to realize how much work goes into raising three kids? Hope all goes well with this and that you get some relaxing down time.

CP said...

You deserve that monthly break. Nothing like having time to reconnect with your husband on an adult level.

Don't you disappear on us again, ya hear?????

CP.

Big Pissy said...

You're alive!!!!!

yea!!!!

Don't stay gone so long the next time, missy!

Update from the road once in awhile!

Pat & Reg said...

I think you've completely missed October too! :)
What's up girlfriend?